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Do You Matter? Lisa Barlow thinks so.

May 14, 2026

Do you actually believe you matter, just as you are, not because of what you produce? In this episode, Daffnee and Torri get into the question that might be hard to sit with: inherent self-worth. Where it comes from, why so many of us spend years performing our way toward it, and what it looks like to finally stop....


May 3, 2026

Your gut has never been wrong. So why does it feel like everyone around you missed the memo? In this episode, Daffnee and Torri get into trust — who has it, who lost it, and why millennials aren't cynics, we're just paying attention. From spidey senses to the Epstein files, this one hits close to home.

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May 2, 2026

Everyone is exhausted and nobody has a solution, and Daffnee and Torri are no exception. In this episode they get honest about the impossible math of modern life: working full-time, raising kids, maintaining relationships, and somehow also doing all your hobbies. They talk about where AI is actually making things worse,...


May 1, 2026

Nobody taught us how money actually works — not school, not our parents, not the Pythagorean theorem. In this episode, Daffnee and Torri get honest about the financial mistakes they made, the rock bottoms that finally forced them to pay attention, and why so many millennials are still figuring it out in real time....


Feb 6, 2026

In this episode, Torri and Daffnee get honest about boundaries. 

They talk about why boundaries feel so hard to set, especially for women, parents, and overachievers, and why so many of us confuse boundaries with being cold, selfish, or difficult. From friendships and family dynamics to work, parenting, and emotional...